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How to Attract Beautiful Women

Guys who know how to attract beautiful women are guys who know what beautiful women are looking for. It’s true — guys that date hot girls aren’t necessarily better-looking or more desirable than you, they just know how to attract women’s attention.

There are three things gorgeous women want in a man:

  1. Physical attraction
  2. Sense of humor
  3. Money

You can spend all day debating this, but experts in human sexuality have known for years that women are attracted to men that are clean, attractive, funny, and wealthy.

The good news is that you can make a few changes in yourself now and overcome all three of the above obstacles.

How to Increase Your Physical Attraction

So there’s a hot girl at your local bar you’ve been dying to make contact with but she never seems to notice you. Alright — you may be a funny guy with a great job, but if she isn’t attracted to you physically, you’ll never get the chance to talk to her. What can you do to increase the likelihood that she’ll notice you?

Easy — you know how people dress at the bar, you’ve spent enough time there. Use this knowledge to your advantage. Add a nice pair of shoes to your outfit, buy a new coat, or maybe get a hair cut and you’ll automatically stand out of the crowd. Remember to make your best features stand out. If you have big arms, show off your arms a little, etc.

How to Show Off your Funny Side

Everybody loves to laugh. When a woman finds a man that can make her laugh, it increases the chance that he’ll stand out and for many women a sense of humor is far more important than the way a guy looks.  How can you get a woman to laugh?

One quick way to initiate laughter is to break the ice. You need to laugh at her jokes or her humor first, or laugh at someone else’s joke. Creating an environment where it is “okay” to laugh is essential. Another tip — always be willing to go for the joke. If you tell five jokes and four of them totally bomb, she won’t remember those four. She’ll remember the one that had her giggling for five minutes. Confidence and a humorous attitude are also great ways to get a woman to notice you and your unique sense of humor.

How to Get Around the Money Problem

There are exceptions, but for the most part women want to be with a man who is financially successful. Demonstrating your wealth is very dangerous — you don’t want to go too far and come off as a show off or a snob. If you’re into a woman who is at the bar with her friends, buy them all a round of drinks and simply go over to say “Hi”. If you think your lack of funds is going to be enough to keep you out of a woman’s favor, your best bet is to move right along. There’s no good way to fake money. My best tip? Pick cheaper dates.

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